Pause, Reflect, Rebuild

Pause, Reflect, Rebuild

Find Peace in the Pause

Find stability and break free from poverty with our Selah Living program.

We believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to live a stable and fulfilling life. Our dedicated team, along with our proven methods and resources, will guide you towards a better future. We understand that overcoming poverty can feel overwhelming, but with our support, we will restore your confidence.

We have developed a comprehensive program that addresses the root causes of poverty and provides tangible solutions to help individuals and families overcome it. Our holistic approach focuses not just on addressing immediate needs, but also on empowering you to build long-term stability for yourself and for your family.

Through our Selah Living program, we provide you access to education, job training, financial literacy classes, mental health resources, and other essential services. Our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and skills you need to secure employment, manage your finances effectively, and develop a positive mindset.

Together, we can help you build a stronger future!

The Meaning of Selah

The word “Selah” is a Hebrew term found 71 times in the book of Psalms, often interpreted as meaning “to pause” or “to reflect.” When you participate in the program, you can take time out of your daily life and spend concentrated time working toward positive change.

Achieve Stability

When you enter Selah Living you will:

  • be empowered to restore your sense of agency and power
  • collaborate with therapists to interrupt and break the cycle of poverty
  • learn a holistic approach to stability and self-sufficiency
  • encounter a faith-based perspective honoring your unique journey
  • collaborate with social workers and therapists to break the cycle of poverty

Eligibility

You can utilize Selah Living if you are:

  • currently pregnant or parenting
  • a resident of the state of Missouri
  • have an employment history
  • an active participant in our ConnectCare or Pregnancy Support Programs

Occasionally, we consider referrals from partner agencies.

Services Available

Take advantage of these comprehensive programs:

  • Parenting Skills: Equipping you with tools to be an effective, nurturing parent
  • Housing Assistance: Helping you secure and maintain stable housing
  • Utility Assistance: Giving you support in managing and paying for essential utilities
  • Budgeting and Saving Skills: Offering financial education to promote your long-term stability
  • Essential Supplies: Providing you access to food, clothing, and supplies related to pregnancy, newborn care, and parenting
  • Case Management: Partnering with one of our experts who gives you personalized support and guidance throughout the program

Experience Healing Reimagined

  • Referral: You can be referred to Selah through our Pregnancy Support or ConnectCare departments.
  • Assessment: Our case managers work closely with you to assess your needs and motivation.
  • Enrollment: If you meet the program’s requirements and show a commitment to the program, you will be referred to the Selah Living Program Director.
  • Personalized Plan: Create your own plan for stability and growth with the help of Selah’s program experts.
  • Ongoing Support: Receive continuous support and resources as you work toward your goals.

Testimonials

How One Act of Kindness Built a Family’s Future

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The ripple effect of kindness can change the world, and I am living proof. Thanks to one remarkable woman’s unwavering belief in me, I found CFS, an organization that embodies compassion and excellence. Their unwavering support, generosity, and encouragement enabled me to become the proud father I am today, giving my children an incredible foundation. This past year has been truly life-changing, and I am eternally grateful to CFS for becoming a second family to me. Miquilaue, Eric, Jodi, Mary, CFS staff, and affiliates, your selflessness has given my children and me a precious gift. May your organization continue to be a beacon of hope and inspiration to those who need it most. You have earned my deepest admiration and gratitude.

Answering the Call: Tyler’s Journey to Foster Love

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Tyler*, a single, 26-year old young man, called CFS to inquire if he could get rental assistance to move into a new residence with his foster son, Brandon*. Tyler was renting a home that became a safety issue for his 1-year old foster son and after discussing the issue with the landlord was forced to move immediately.

Tyler’s story is unique in that he resided in Texas when he was informed that his infant cousin was placed in the foster care system with no relatives able to provide care for him. Tyler decided to answer the call, uproot his life and successful career, and move to St. Louis. Once in St. Louis he went through all of the steps to become an approved and licensed foster parent and found a job at a significant pay cut. Tyler’s heart and dedication to providing a safe place for his foster son, made it easy to approve him for rental assistance.

Time was of the essence in securing a new home for Tyler and Brandon. Due to the necessity of having to leave their rental immediately, Tyler was forced to move temporarily to a residence in Illinois. Brandon, was required to stay in Missouri and had to return temporarily to his previous foster family.

Tyler’s motivated and optimistic spirit was truly inspirational to all of the staff at CFS. After two weeks of searching, Tyler was able to move into a 1-bedroom apartment. Brandon was returned to his care the next day.

CFS is happy to provide rental assistance to Tyler and Brandon for the following three months to allow time for them to get settled and save for the future. We wish them luck and success!

Support That Transforms

You’re not alone with Christian Family Services by your side. Together, we’ll help you face an unexpected pregnancy, consider foster care or adoption, seek counseling, or review financial support options. Reach out today.