Pregnancy Options

The moment you receive a positive pregnancy test result, you may be overcome with a tidal wave of emotions. Pregnancy is a life-altering event that can evoke feelings of excitement, joy, and uncertainty, or in the case of unwanted pregnancy, fear, panic, and even despair. Regardless of whether your pregnancy is planned or not, you do not have to go it alone—help is available every step of the way. Read on to learn more about pregnancy options available to you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Counseling

Once you find out you’re pregnant, you are faced with the important question of what to do next. It can be helpful to seek support from a third party. Pregnancy centers can connect you to a licensed social worker who can listen without judgment or bias, and ask thoughtful, open-ended questions to support you as you consider your next steps.

Adoption

A woman may decide that the best option for her and her child is to entrust care to an adoptive family. This is a highly personal and difficult decision. Support personnel within an adoption program can guide you through the adoption process. There are several types of adoption to choose from based on the desired level of contact with the adoptive family and your child.

Closed Adoption

  • No contact between you and the adoptive family

  • All matters are handled through a third party

  • Adoption records are sealed

Open Adoption

  • Full contact with the adoptive family

  • Contact information exchanged

  • Mutually agreed-upon terms for meeting

Semi-open Adoption

  • Some exchange of information

  • In-person meetings are usually arranged by a third party

  • Option to become fully open if both parties agree

Parenting Support

Should you choose to keep your child, plenty of resources exist to support you throughout your pregnancy and prepare you for parenting. There are classes to teach parenting skills and programs to obtain pregnancy and baby supplies. Pregnancy centers can also assist you in accessing prenatal care.

If you are faced with an unwanted pregnancy, Christian Family Services can help.

Contact us to learn more about our counseling, adoption, and pregnancy support services.

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5 Misconceptions About Choosing Adoption For
Your Child

If you recently had a positive pregnancy test but do not view parenting as a viable path for you, adoption may be one of the pregnancy options you consider. Many myths exist that have contributed to a skewed understanding of how adoption works. Having complete and accurate information will help you to decide if adoption is the best choice for you and your child. Here is the truth behind five common misconceptions:

1. Adoption Is Selfish

A woman may choose adoption for a variety of reasons, but her decision is rooted in the understanding that she is unable to provide the kind of life her baby needs. To admit this and put her baby’s needs first is one of the most humbling and selfless acts a birth mother can do. In addition, a birth mother is still tasked with caring for her baby throughout pregnancy—consulting with pregnancy centers, keeping up with prenatal care, and making healthy lifestyle choices.

2. I Can’t Change My Mind Once I Initiate the Adoption Process

The adoption process includes many steps. You can reevaluate your decision at any point up until the adoption is deemed final as determined by state law.

 

3. My Child Will Feel Unloved or Rejected

When adoptive parents share an honest and compassionate narrative about birth families, adopted children can appreciate that they were given out of love by one family and chosen with love by another family.

 

4. I Will Not Be Able to See My Child Again

An open adoption plan allows you and the adoptive family to decide on a level of contact with which you’re both comfortable.

 

5. I Will Regret My Decision

Any life-changing decision comes with the risk of regret. Confiding in your adoption counselor can offer reassurance that you are making the best decision for you and your child.

If you are facing an unwanted pregnancy and are contemplating adoption, Christian Family Services can help. Reach out anytime. Our team will be there to offer support and guide you on your journey.

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Using Adoption as a Pregnancy Option

An unplanned pregnancy can bring stress, fear and confusion. For many, being at a loss of what to do can cause uncertainty and a rush to make decisions that have long-term consequences. There are pregnancy options for those who are looking for them, and placing a child up for adoption is one of them. Though it can be a tough choice to make, it can also be one of the most rewarding and fulfilling if you are dealing with an unwanted pregnancy.

Realize the Benefits of the Adoption Process

If you’ve gotten a positive result on a pregnancy test, you may be looking for a way to deal with the changes that are coming. If you don’t want the baby, you can use adoption to give your child a future and give another family or individual a small miracle. These are the benefits of choosing adoption at the end of your pregnancy.

Know the Types of Adoption

You can control the adoption process by choosing the specific type of adoption you want. The differences will determine how much contract or involvement you may have in the future with the child you give birth to. A closed adoption takes away the contact between you and the adoptive family. A third party controls the entire process, and the records are sealed by the court. This allows a birth mother to remain anonymous.

With open adoption, contact is allowed with the child and the adoptive family. Typically, the parties meet before the birth, and contact information is exchanged. In a semi-open adoption, limited information is exchanged and some contact is allowed.

Get Guidance Through Pregnancy Options

Pregnancy centers are a source of guidance and help when deciding what to do about unplanned pregnancies, prenatal care and adoptions. Christian Family Services is the place to find caring pregnancy support. Reach out today to find out more.

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What To Expect When You're Unexpectedly Expecting

For women who are unsure about their readiness or desire to be a mother, a positive pregnancy test can be terrifying. Though you have a new constant companion in your growing baby, you may have never felt more alone. If you’re faced with an unwanted pregnancy, know that support is available as you explore pregnancy options and make life-altering decisions.

Talk Through Your Options

Choosing to become a parent or to place your child for adoption is an extremely personal decision, one that only you can make. It can be helpful, though, to consider your options with the support of a neutral, non-judgmental professional such as a social worker, who can guide you through your fears, reservations and uncertainties.

If you are experiencing homelessness, addiction or domestic abuse, a social worker can connect you with resources to provide support for your unique circumstances. A listening ear and a helping hand can go a long way in empowering you to decide your next steps.

Gain Confidence in Your Parenting Skills

Expectant mothers who are unsure about their ability to care for a child can receive the support they need to build confidence and improve their circumstances. Family service organizations can assist with:

  • Connecting with a pregnancy center

  • Obtaining prenatal care

  • Teaching parenting skills

  • Procuring food, clothing and supplies for during and after pregnancy

  • Seeking financial assistance

Become Informed About Adoption

Enrolling in an adoption program does not obligate you to choose this route. You are simply learning more to determine the best choice for your child. Your caseworker will guide you through the adoption process and address any concerns or questions you have.


Dealing with a surprise pregnancy can be overwhelming and isolating. Christian Family Services is here to support you through your pregnancy and beyond. We offer maternity counseling, parenting education and adoption placement. Reach out to us today to walk with you through this life-changing experience.

Understanding your pregnancy options

From the moment your pregnancy test reads positive, you will be overwhelmed with emotions. As you try to discern what is best for you and your baby, know that Christian Family Services is here to help. We can guide you through your pregnancy options. Regardless of the choices you make, we offer compassionate assistance during your pregnancy and beyond.

Adoption 

If you are facing an unwanted pregnancy, know that your child would be very much welcome in an adoptive home. We support you through every step of the adoption process, including choosing an adoptive family and deciding upon an open, semi-open, or closed adoption. 

We provide counseling throughout the pregnancy. We'll ensure you are getting appropriate prenatal care. You can also access post-adoption support for the rest of your life. Our full-service agency stands by you from day one.

Professional Counseling

Christian Family Services provides counseling to families, individuals, and couples. Our professional counselors offer help with a variety of mental and emotional issues, such as:

  • Depression and anxiety

  • Trauma

  • Crises pregnancy

  • Parenting skills

  • Communication skills

  • Pre-marital counseling

Our therapists use a cognitive-behavioral approach to help you resolve your problems. They are skilled with the grieving process and can assist you with handling the emotions surrounding death, divorce, placing a child in adoption, and other feelings of loss.

Compassionate Care

As you consider your pregnancy options, remember that the pregnancy centers you need are available to you. Christian Family Services is licensed in Illinois and Missouri to provide birth parent counseling and adoption services. We are a one-stop center for you and your baby as you decide what course to take.

If you have any questions about your pregnancy, the adoption process, or our counseling services, please get in touch right away. Call, text, or email. We are here for you and your baby.

Adjusting to the news that you're pregnant

Finding out that you’re pregnant can be quite a shock, especially if you don’t feel ready to have a baby or don’t have the ability to adequately care for the child. There is no judgment at Christian Family Services when you are looking for a way to handle the news that a baby is on the way. From confirmation through a pregnancy test or help understanding what options you have, the staff at our pregnancy centers are here for you and can help with pregnancy options.

Decide What To Do

Not everyone is ready to have a child, but in place of the choice of abortion to get rid of unwanted pregnancy, consider the idea of adoption. Deciding to place a child into the care of another permanently is a decision that is as tough as abortion, but our team can fully explain the adoption process and what can be expected. Additionally, if you decide that you want to go ahead with the pregnancy and raise the child, there are many parenting resources available to help you succeed. No one should go through a pregnancy and these major life decisions on their own, and with our team walking beside you, you won’t have to.

Take Care of Yourself

Whether you decide to become a parent or you decide on an alternate solution, it is important to seek the proper care to protect your physical and mental health. With testing options for sexually transmitted diseases or ultrasounds to check on the health of the fetus, there are several ways to look after your own health once you find out you're pregnant.

Choose Personal Care for Your Pregnancy Options

From the first moment of finding out you are pregnant to getting help with prenatal care, there are many ways our team of caring individuals can confidentially provide help. Christian Family Services is here in your time of need and confusion, and we are ready to make this journey with you. Contact us today.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Common Worries Surrounding an Unplanned Pregnancy

Every woman’s pregnancy journey is different, but an unwanted pregnancy often incites feelings of fear and doubt. Learn about commonly cited worries and how to address them so you can make the best decision about pregnancy options.

Financial Insecurities

You may wonder how you will afford all the expenses that come with raising a child, especially if you currently struggle with financial stability. Pregnancy centers can connect you with critical resources, including:

  • Health insurance

  • Prenatal care

  • Housing assistance

  • Food and clothing

  • Diapers and other baby supplies

Parenting Skills

If you lacked a positive parental role model growing up, you might question your ability to be a good parent. Or perhaps you lack confidence and knowledge about how to care for a child. No matter the source of your doubts, many pregnancy centers offer parenting support programs that aim to prepare you for parenthood. These programs typically provide parenting skills classes, transportation assistance for pregnancy-related needs and essential prenatal, postnatal and newborn care supplies. You’ll also be connected with a social worker for one-on-one support.

Emotional Readiness

There is no clear-cut way to determine your readiness to be a parent. It’s a complex and life-changing decision that only you can make. After personal reflection and careful consideration, you may opt to place your baby for adoption.

Different types of adoption are available and vary based on the level of contact you wish to have with the adoptive family and your child. A trusted, licensed agency can walk you through the steps of the adoption process.

If you have just received a positive pregnancy test result, you may be uncertain about your next steps. Though decisions regarding your pregnancy are entirely up to you, help is available to guide you through the process. Christian Family Services offers maternity counseling and related programs to explore pregnancy options. Contact us today to get the support you need.

 

 

 

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